Mary Mbaleje Wrote:—
I don’t know what you take a wife for. I don’t know the basis of the comparison. I tried to understand the reasons and I couldn’t.
My brother, let me help you. Your wife gets pregnant. Goes to labour room that many Women didn’t survive. Her body nomenclature changed because she is having children for you. She starts grooming a life after delivery until the baby sits, talks, walks and start feeding himself. Another is in her stomach growing. She cooks, washes and thinks about the welfare of her husband and Children. She fasts and prays for you. She denies herself some frivolities because she is planning for the family. She passes sleepless nights watching over your babies. She engages in the most tasking job of the family. She drops and picks up your children. She hardly have time to rest. Some of us hardly give them upkeep allowance. Neither do we buy clothes for them. Some used the clothes they bought as singles because they’re trying to cope with you. They desire your growth. HER LOOK IS A FUNCTION OF YOUR CARE.
Instead of getting a domestic assistant for her to ease her job, you give the money to a side chick. Drink and club with the rest. She is subjected to a whole lot of pressure on daily basis.
You hardly return home and bathe your children let alone feed them. You fix your eyes on the phone or television when you get home. She drops the crying baby upon sighting you to serve you meal. She hardly had time to even Visit a saloon. She uses bands to hold her hair. Always wearing smiling face not to affect her children. You ask for sex and she gives you and yet she don’t bother how she Copes daily.
You will take your side chick to an Eatery, bar and joints. She is never taken out. The only outing is going to church if you will attend with her
She washes and manages her clothes and covers your shame before her people. She defends you before the children.
Amidst these…. You share bills with her. If she complaints, you call her a liability. She works in this state and you don’t appreciate her.
The reward you will give her is comparing her with a strange woman? You compare her with a whore that all she thinks of is sexual styles.
All she thinks of is how to seduce men
All she desires is getting you to pay her bills.
All she graves for is to drain you.
Her savings are on clothing, and jewelries. She has never given birth neither has she ever passed sleepless nights nurturing a life. She has never felt the pain of Child bearing neither has blood flowed down her body for weeks after child bearing.
It is painful to say the least.
THE WORST YOU CAN GIVE YOUR WIFE IS TO COMPARE HER WITH A STRANGE WOMAN.
TO EVERY MOTHER AND WIFE THERE. BE STRONG AND COURAGEOUS. IF HE DOESN’T APPRECIATE YOUR SACRIFICES. GOD DOES.
NO MAN CAN COMPARE HIS SOULMATE WITH A STRANGE WOMAN. HE IS NOT MAN ENOUGH.
IGNORE ANY COMPARISON. IN FACT, WIVES CAN’T BE COMPARED WITH SIDE CHICKS.
YOU ARE A SUPER WOMAN.