Home NewsGender Issues Note These 6 Important SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN


by Anita Ogona
1. Rejecting food when there’s an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It’s one of the
greatest signs of immaturity, it’s time to grow
up! You should not even abandon your home for
any reason. You could go somewhere when
angry but ensure that you don’t allow it to linger
unnecessarily because that is enough for the
devil to build on even though some women can
be really troublesome.
2. Telling your wife severally that you are the
May I let you know that even when your wife
disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that
you are the head. You need not shout or scream
it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on
CNN? It’s important for you to know when and
how to be firm and put your feet down over
issues, however don’t become a nagging
husband just to prove that you are the head.
3. Issuing threats:
beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes
the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability
to tame your tongue and control your fist. When
she is acting her “childish woman” part, play the
“matured man.”
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don’t have to tell
everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her
black and sell her cheap such that you will not
be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my
question ?
5. Keeping malice:
is it not funny to know that some men keep
malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse
and call their wives names in public. It may
make you look like a “big boy” who’s in control
but you are not going to gain anything good from
it, your home will only be a den of insults and
6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility
of a woman to tend and manage a home when
she chooses to be a full time house wife.
However, it’s not a bad thing if a man lends a
helping hand when necessary. Watching football
with newspaper in your hand every evening, not
caring how stressful the house chores are will
only increase the pressure on your wife and if
you truly care you’ll help, just checking on her
while busy could encourage and sooth her, this
also makes you a good example to the kids
especially the boys. Some men don’t even say
“thank You” to their wives after eating, all they do
is compare her with other women. It’s a shame
that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot
change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
My point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife,
not a hole of depression.
Build your marriage now don’t destroy it.

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