1. MARRYING AN OLDER MAN:
I don’t think marrying older men is bad but marrying someone that is old enough to be your father or older than your father, is it for love or what?
2. PLEADING, BEGGING AND CRYING FOR MEN to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image and loose value in his sight. Men are hunters by nature, whatever they want they hunt for it.
3. COOKING FOR THE GUY YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO, Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that becomes a regular habit then it’s considered as foolishness. Relax!!! you have forever to feed him.
4. NOT QUITTING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP:
My sister, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you. Beating you or verbally abusing you makes you worthless even before his family.
5. MOVING IN WITH A GUY THAT YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. My sister, you are mistaken because that will never happen. Sometimes, some even take-in for the man.
6. DATING A MAN FOR A LONG TIME WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER, or where your relationship stands. especially when you know you not his business partner, even business partners plan for the their future each year.
7. LIVING IN A MAN RESIDENT, that you are not married to:
This is common in our higher institutions today, even outside our unis, and poly, you find this life style too, it’s wrong and not good for you as a lady.
8. SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS TOO EARLY:
Girls are always victims of this, they always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.
9. UNFRIENDING YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE OF A MAN YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH:
Believe me my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess. Most times this attitude back fires. Keep your good friends, they’re a plus to you and not minus…
10. ALLOWING A MAN TURN YOU INTO A SEX DOLL BECAUSE OF THE PROMISE OF MARRIAGE… This is where most ladies missed it, they think sex is love. Sister sex is not a proof of love, you’ll continue to get hurt if you continue to allow sex take over your relationship.
Every woman is guilty of one or two or more of this,… that’s just the fact.