Anita Ogona
Ever since Android Phone with it’s fixtures that Started with BlackBerry which made many marriage’s scatter and ended up insolvent, especially in Nigeria which is my Constituency and my headache.
Blackberries Started an epidemic where living fake life took over our Women, then other splinter Social Media ikwarikwata started with Erotical Chat Apps, helped to spoil our Children and led our women into adulterous life , including the one they called TO GO, which made our TEENS to crave for what the mothers enjoyed on Merit, and it killed the respect of Boys Toasting Girls, today the desecration of youthful life’s has been damaged beyond repairs by Social Mediums.
WhatsApp an App that facilitated Ikwa Iko without ikofusi Akiko.
Facebook and it’s messenger that reduce Toasting of women into nothing, made life of Searching for social life malaise very easy, today one can get GAYISM association from comfort of ones android, before now it was a taboo that no ones speaks about in the open.
Instagram the kingdom of Doom is taking no captives.
TIK TOK the app that offer gate pass to Hell if you want a visit, and grant permanent resident for SPOILT BRAT ..and other Social Media Vices developed into fatal flaws of the society, and we know that Nigeria bugodi ómuta ogbakaria (Copy Cat that turn to MENACE), Decency and decorum become fallacy on the ears of our feminist and our Youths become Tufiakwa.
So many relationship went sour and stay South, marriages developed phobia with anxiety for better and for worse ,because women congregated on some Social MEDIA platforms to decide how best they can live double life, which should be called double jeopardy, even the ones still in school have strong addiction to RUNS and call up, hooking, they rush into mannerless outburst because they are displaying “Big Girl without Brain” mentality, and things fell apart, while the center called marriage can no longer held, in marriages most of the Children brought into it were fathered through proxy, many Men raises families they never knew how they inched into his family, but with Believe they fathered a Generation, Men got traumatized when machine made evidence called DNA said who you Fathered isn’t yours again, and you accept such blatant nkogheri?, iyasikwo, ogbasadim…if you come and pour Gallons of Fuel in my Car packed in my garage, Nwanne the car remains mine and the fuel remains in my Car and no thanks to you.
Marriage is an institution without graduating, with all the antagonistic presence of lecturers, Cuitist, School management, bullies, yet students went all the way to finishing line in Tertiaries ,even when it gets to Bedmatics Axis that also got done, but small marriage hiccups, ebido gusiba ónú Mmiri, with I can’t tolerate that Man ,as if you she has life Outside the one made available by Man or Men.
This days ,Our women care more of how protruding the behind is and never how Her sense will ever be useful, they care more about displaying the contours of the bress and not how to raise good Children, they careless if the Husband is bent in half as long as they have admirers who call them SEXY which is metaphor for Akwuna.
We no longer have PRIVATE PARTS, its not Public Parts on display , originally when you call a woman Akwuna, it’s degrading, but now they fashioned a name “Hook upians ” and it makes them prance about as if they discovered Sea Route to India.
Dear Men , come with me lets discuss, I want us to circumspect and then circumvent the heart break women weaved for us , which starts Men dying younger and women life start afresh after demise of a Man ,they inherit the children and we inherit the Hatred, but ótugó ya ,there must be reversal.
If your wife tuta ime outside and DNA prove it and you divorce the children, the woman is seeing that child as Branch office for her Better future, all of them including the ones you think you Fathered are manipulated to believe that she love them and you hated them with Virus, she makes you the central enemy and the Kids you divorced because of GENOTYPE, she will fill the head with how wicked the father was and send them out into the cold while he lay in another woman’s hand ,a lie you won’t he allowed to defend ,ifuro na we are the usual losers ?.
If half of what wives said to children about father’s are discussed as a family, which Women won’t allow to happen, kids will know that Delilah was a newbie to contest with women of this generation.
Once a man die, most wives will upgrade to Street hustler, they dress so indecent and advertise contours of the body, that you simply Wonder if this her side was bottled inside waiting for the man to kpai ?
Most Men , especially well to do, who had reasons to investigate fatherhood of children, discovered that they did not Father most children , it breaks the heart of Men and they go into recluse and die unhappy or start living outside his cocoon just to find solace, as for poor Men , they worry less about who they fathered and who they didn’t father.
I come to us to tell us to embrace the attitude of Last Born Mpa Nnukwu, even though it sound unbelievable, but that’s a sure way of brokering the new dearth of AUTHENTIC FATHERHOOD of your own family, I always believe that since i was born , I started seeing my siblings and believe we are Ofu nne , ofu Nna (Same Father and mother) because my parents did not conduct DNA or even query our genetics, once my father has absolute confidence in us, I have super confidence in my own family, and if devil doesn’t like it ,he should go and marry and have his own kids, we are greater than even Angels, because we procreate and they don’t, same with Demons, living with siblings blood clotting is the standard of our generation, but today there are aliases for “GOD FORBID ‘ actions, they call Ime Mkpuke SINGLE Motherhood, they call a Woman who break her own family, put a divide between Fathers and Children Freedom searching woman , since that mindset took over the IQ of our Women, infidelity has become a Normal. They don’t know that while they search for happiness of self, they destroy that of the Children.
But , Men should apply the application of ebe nwa si Uwa nya bili (However and wherever a child come into your family and calls you Daddy and you cherish him or her as your offspring, biological or Borrow logical doesn’t matter” ,after all imaro nwa ga ene gi nka , especially this days we send our kids overseas to study and they will swear a personal oath of ” If i ever come back to take care of the parents who took care of me , may thunder fire the child “,they will tell you, they don’t care about Nigeria, they are comfortable living Overseas as surrogate slaves, Nwanne adopt Children of your relations, outsiders, Town and Village to populate your house , break all boundaries and when you are about to go out of this misery, you shall see true love ,just allow those biological who don’t care, to know you don’t care as well, if not at your demise, they will come to sale your saleable Estates and leave your Ancestral throne in shambles .
Even the ones you trained in Nigeria, ended up living life of THE GODS MUST BE CRAZY, as all they do is never written in our annals, they simply live a mutant life, a life of Checkered generation where most children dedicates life to serve as nwa Oseaka or called Wasted generation overseas, bringing me back to what i advise men .
DNA 🧬 Is an English invention because they have history of mutant martial life, they went around the world and planted fears into life that was organized with awesome defiance, where democracy was the bedrock and it was called UMUNNA, UMUNNE, UMUADA, IKWU NA IBE, UMU ÓKPÚ, NDI INYOM DI, NDI ICHIE, NDI ÓZÓ , it was a well structured living in Harmony until the invaders introduced ism filled with schism and it render us insolvent, we learn the act of Divorce, separation, feminism, Single Mom , sure we borrowed such abominable life style, but the problem is that at old age the caucasians have old people’s home where they dump parents who the younger ones felt are burden, but right here in Africa, before now we pride selves with “enelum my parents nka ‘ ,a Version they can never ape because they don’t even have parental upbringing, just know na nwa azuru na obodo oyibo ,tolu onwe ya.
We Ndigbo take care of our Parents, but mostly fathers are always treated with disdain, despite they are the bedrock but a Surgical conspiracy between mothers and Children planted a vacuum between kids and fathers.
Our Culture it’s the best insurance and utmost assurance for an aging parents.
If for any reason you went for DNA especially for those planning on jetting out of this comatosic Nation ,you have destroyed generation and i will advise ,go and bring back the children, it’s not their fault afterall óbiaru onye óju ? , as for me , anyi ekwechiri go with full chest na NIGERIA, for those planning on jetting out , if DNA said your kids are not yours , Nwanne si ya rijue nsi ónu, as Long as you did many nights CONJUGAL Bliss, the Woman got pregnant under your house or say martial coverage, the child born under your roof and he or She calls you Father.. that’s the only DNA allowed by our Custom.
To Mazi Odera the only DNA that works for me , is when a child recognizes me as Dad, i have lived over 50% of my life , and once I close my eyes in Death, I don’t know and I worry not who inherits my Estate, i don’t care who lives in my place and who answers my name , what appeal to me is how many people i will be able to put perfect smiles on the face, that at the end of life , i will be smiling on the other side of life while singing “When peace like a River attendeth my way ” (Mgbe Udo dika osmiri na eru na uzom, mgbe nsogbu biara ka ebili).
Men , the confirmed Biological offspring from your loin doesn’t even care for you once you aged, all you suffer to appropriate for them is just like powder spread in the Hurricane wind, why not retire self with Children you raised, who sees you as FATHER who they will do everything to show passion and Love with.
As a Man , your Future is not with with the children from your loin, as the Bible said “Cast thy bread upon the Sea and though shall find it later”, spread love not genetical hubris , raise Children around you not muppets we mistake for” Loin of my LOIN” , stop taking the plots of our women to heart, when they have plotted to celebrate our demise as they gallivant from place to place taking dividends from Childs you raised and they poisoned their minds with fatal poisonous words that make the children to hate Men, don’t add to the Hatred by agreeing to DNA Debacle, just accept in your heart that wherever a child comes from into your house , that he or she is yours with full chest , after all we don’t know how to mould baby and if another Farmer decides to plant his own maize in your Farm land, just know that you are the one to harvest and enjoy the dividend.
Having said the above, let me say to Men “Jisi ike, asula ngongo”
Mazi Odera POg JP, Mkpisi Ndi Egede, Minority Opinion writer na South East, Anu ana agba Egbe ona arigo na aritu, Dibia Onu Ike adighi agbalu Ekperima afa, Nwa Chukwu Ku na aka na onwu agaghi egbunwu ya, Akua Aka egenti Ndi Egede, Voice of the gods, Gentleman with baseball bat walking stick.
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